To marry a foreigner and to move abroad is a very responsible step, connected with breaking of stereotypes and demanding big will power and persistence in achieving a purpose. Adaptation to the new country seldom goes on without problems, and integration into the ancient culture of a small people, treating to newcomers rather negatively nowadays and understanding under integration full cultural assimilation, demands lots of emotional efforts. Here exist probably two ways - refusal of former yourself, that is an attempt to be completely dissolved in the new culture, to become similar to associates people so that they accept you for a close person; or a struggle for your own originality, efforts in upholding your own originality and the right to be yourself. The third way is not given.
If women want to marry foreigners, fine girls that achieve it in any ways. It was not pleasant, that we were laughed at? And what? The whole world laughs at us, the main thing is to achieve your purpose. Yes, we live in such away, yes, 75 % of the population of Ukraine is below the breadline, people huddle together in small apartments, there is no work and any prospect for Ukraine women. We cannot compare ourselves to the French, and the French grooms - to ours too, because there is lack of princes in the world. Ukraine women who address a marriage agency has already passed the school of survival, and, as a rule, has already been married and knows all charm of a Russian marriage, knows what she aims at. If lucky - she will remain with the "new" husband if not - she won't return back all the same, and it is even better if she gives birth to a child: she will be on welfare and can, without begging, live normally. So, the main thing is to leave.
Many people know not by hearsay, that the Ukraine women, living in the country where laws work, where there is stable salary, will probably be indignant: how can it be? They are preconceived in treating us. They have this right; the main thing is not emotions, but the result.