Destinies develop absolutely differently, but common language, culture and traditions give a basis for joint meetings. Moving to another country, Russian brides realize it clearly, that much in life will have to be changed, something appears more comfortable, than in homeland, and all the same will be nostalgically not to suffice something but to understand it abstractly and particularly to feel it oneself - are two big differences.
Danes are benevolent, smiling. The society is constructed in such a manner that the maximum quantity of requirements is satisfied at his expense (therefore and taxes are great, from our point of view - someone should pay for all this). That's how it goes - all functions, as hours, - a bus comes up the bus stop a 1-2 minutes earlier or later the specified schedule, in library the computer will help to find a necessary book (and in Russian too!) within several minutes and if it on hands the computer will order it for you, the letter will find the addressee next day after it was thrown in a letter box ... For the person, grown and brought up in our cultural environment, it is difficult to understand, why the burden of care of relatives is easily shifted on shoulders of the state, and even visiting your mum or the sister needs to be arranged for several weeks, not because you are terribly busy, but simply because so the relationships are being formed there. Concepts of friendship have absolutely other parameters, which are not always easy for measuring at the first tome
Russian brides are beautiful, clever, gentle. They deserve human happiness. They shouldn't find themselves in local crisis-centres and social apartments for poor. But if you divorce, and you have a child - here all Danish system will take care of you. The grant of lonely mother. The grant to habitation. Social benefits. Such are the rules of this game. The poorer you are, the more interesting for you are for the society, such is Scandinavian life.